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Negative comments?
It appears that I've upset a number of 'guru' traders with my
comments.
So much so, that some of them post nasty personal comments about me
on notice boards. (Not about my trading course as they've
never actually read it.) It seems that critics seem to spend all day
in
the virtual world of bulletin boards which, I suppose, gives them a
sense
of importance
in an
elite
little circle they've created.
Yet these unscrupulous and deceitful people have offered to write
a wonderful review of my trading course on message boards, if
I would only just give them a free copy of my course. How
thoughtful of them.
I've even had one investigative journalist contact me about one
particular
Web site ( he wanted to know if I've been approached
by them) that criticizes most of what they review and recommends
certain work. However the 'certain' work they recommend is affiliated
to them. It's quite unbelievable what these people get up to.
Ever since I began
offering my trading course, I have come in contact
with a
large range of people. Fortunately most have been polite and
friendly - for such people I have ample time. But I've also come across
some extremely malicious and blatantly deceptive people that leave
me truly
wondering how they live with themselves. I suppose when you're in
contact with so many people, a handful are bound to be
of a somewhat dubious character.
Not only have we had people threaten to post false negative
information about my methods if I didn't provide the course for
free, we've had people send
abusive emails even though they've never had any dealings with
me at all. I really don't understand these people, and have to assume that they're either
adolescents or jealous competitors that will sell any old rubbish.
You can never consider
anonymous feedback on the Internet to be credible - there are just
to many people that either have
no idea what they're talking about,
or have malicious motives.
A thinly veiled (badly spelt)
threat from a gentleman named Tipu:
"...are several threads I know off where questions were asked and
the threads have been closed but there are many others which are
still up and people are looking forward to answers, if you want I
can send you a list plus there are also other websites who would
want to add your website to their rantings list which will help
buyers decide if they are making the right decision.
Now, keeping things sweet and short. I am hoping that you will
respond in the next 48 hours failing which you will see a feeback
left by a valued member on T2W & Elite and this time I will not
delete my post. Of course I will than pass on my comments to all the
glorious boards and ranking websites."
What a stupid pathetic man.
The
only person who can evaluate anything
is you. Listening to the opinions of others will place you at the
mercy
of liars, losers and con artists. Trust your own judgement and
nobody else. How else can you be a profitable trader?
You need
to stop having a losers attitude and start to
have a winners attitude. A blind man can't lead a blind man. A deaf
man can't tell another man what's playing on the radio. A trader who
has a losers attitude can't help those around him.
So stay out of chat rooms and other virtual gathering places where
all the losers keep each other company and turn losing into a social
event.
It's a fact of life:
If you're remarkable at something, it's likely that some
people won't like you! Criticism comes to those who stand out.
Those without an ounce of
success hate and detest those with
success. In the same way that those without money will express
hatred of those who have educated themselves, and had the sense,
determination, to make their fortune.
These human traits come
from the attributes of Jealousy and Envy.
However they are
different.
We've been raised with
a false belief: We mistakenly believe that criticism leads to
failure. From the time we get to school, we're taught that being
noticed is almost always bad. We often respond to our aversion
to criticism by hiding to avoid the negative feedback, and thus
(ironically) guaranteeing that we won't succeed!
If the only way to cut
through is to be remarkable, and the only way to avoid criticism is
to be boring and safe, well, that's quite a choice isn't it.
YOU do not equal your
project (whatever that may be). Criticism of the project is NOT
criticism of you. It's only criticism of the IDEA.
The greatest artists,
playwrights, car designers, composers, advertising art directors,
authors and chefs have all had significant flops - but that's
what makes their successful work great!
It's people who have the
projects that are never criticized who ultimately fail. The
best the timid can hope for........is to be unnoticed.
If you feel more at ease then please, please, please, go to
other trading Web sites and buy the courses they recommend,
and then come back here. You will then have a better understanding
of the philosophy behind this Web site.
Trading is all about making decisions, and you're entirely on your
own
when making those decisions. If you are easily swayed by false
information (which the masses follow) then you should stay out of
the trading business as you probably don't have the right mentality.
You won't make money by following the mainstream view. Or, to put it
another way, if you do what everyone else does, you can't expect to
get better results than anyone else. Those who make above-average
gains are those who do things that others do not do.
While this business is
based on maths, it's the temperament and character traits of the
individual that wins
the game. Having a good trading system or methodology is no sure
thing that will enrich your bank account. A system or approach is
based on numbers, in one
way or another, but winning at this game is
based on how you react
to those numbers.
Managers of football teams
don't score goals (no matter how good
they are at the job) players
do. It takes a trader to trade!
This is not a business
where being stubborn or having a big ego is going to pay off. You must be flexible in
your thinking. Your objective is to make a consistent amount of
money and a higher rate of return than buying stocks, property and
such. To do that requires individual thinking, and not the
follow-the-crowd thinking which is the trait that makes up the 95%
of losers in this business.
Winning traders are
generally funny, humorous and almost carefree in how they approach
winning/losing - within any situation of their lives.
It's mindset which you must have or acquire.
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